If you're wondering, "What are the clues that my partner is having an affair?" here are some tips on what to look for. The first clue that your partner is having an affair is a change in his or her sex drive. You might assume that an affair may have him wanting it less, but he could also want it more.
The thrill of the new lover could leave him or her panting for more, especially if there are days or nights that he wants to but can't get out of the house. Of course, if your partner is a male, a dead giveaway that he is having an affair is a lipstick stain on his underwear. You might smell perfume on him or his clothing that is not the scent that you wear. There are two other clues that are very common nowadays, if you can get access.
The first is sexy e-mails between him and someone who is clearly a female(or, of course, it could be a male, but it's steamy.) The other common resource is his cell phone. If you can get it away from him and have the password, then check the messages. Sometimes if there is something "phone sexy" or he just wants to hear her voice anytime he feels like it the cheater will save old messages from his lover.
Most married men don't take a lot of time or effort creating passwords that their wives can't figure out. Give the obvious things a try, like last four of his social, your date of birth, his date of birth, you children's dates of birth, your house number, and so forth. You'll probably come out with both the email and cell phone password.
It's almost guaranteed that if he's cheating evidence will be in the e-mail or on the cell phone. Another of the clues that your partner is having an affair are credit card bills for motel rooms that you didn't stay in and he wasn't traveling to on business. One of the dead giveaways is if the hotel or motel is in or near your hometown. If your partner seems preoccupied lately, unlike her or his usual self, she or he may be having an affair. General changes in attitude can suggest that your partner is having an affair. If, for instance, she picks fights with you over little things or nothing, especially if she then storms out of the house, this may well be a way to go to her lover.
If he all of a sudden is Mister Affectionate when he was fairly cold before, he's probably having an affair. It's a guilty conscience that's probably causing the attitude change. There are others, like late nights at work all of a sudden, new hobbies that take him away from home, changes in wardrobe or care of his body (for the better) and hang-up calls at your home. These then, are the answer to the question, "What are the clues that my partner is having an affair?".
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