Dating the right person
you finally scoped out that person who seems to be the one for
you now your probably thinking, "How the HECK do I actually
start to go out with this person?"
Well there are several ways, and they may seem quite impossible,
but really, they can be accomplished!:)
You can go up to the person and ask them if they want to
go on a date. This one is the hardest but seems to be
the most effective, just work up the courage to ask the
person, try practicing what you are going to say with a
friend or by yourself with a mirror.
If you have a mutual friend, you can find out if the
person likes you. This one is somewhat corny but if you
don't have enough guts to do it yourself it works, just make
sure you can trust the person who is finding out for you.
Ask the person through a letter, or be a secret admirer.
Just leave some notes so the person finds them, or think of
something cool so it isn't the same thing:) Just remember
the more creative, the more memorable, so just try
brainstorming with friends.
Have a friend "set you up." Having a friend set you
up will make it a lot easier on your part and maybe the
person will ask you on the next date. This way is best to do
as a group date. Your friend can just say something like
"Hey, a whole bunch of us are going out, would you like to
come with us? My friend (insert name here) will be there,
you guys would get along great!"
Some of these are easier than others, but you should decide
what is best for you. You can brainstorm with some friends
for new and creative ways to ask a person. And if the person
says no, don't worry, as mothers always say "there are many
more fish in the sea." You just need to look a little bit
harder!:) Just remember dating is for fun, your life doesn't
depend on it, and you don't have to find your soul mate on
the first try, look around he/she will pop up one day! Good
luck and don't forget to relax and don't stress out too